Dr.RanjanaKumariAcademician and social activist
Director of the Centre for Social Research; Delhi
Are the women willing to change?
Why gender? This is India. The change you are seeking will not come through. This is a way of life that people have learnt to live with, walk over, circumvent and ignore.
The inception of Centre for Social Research has been the most memorable and challenging tenure of my life. From having a routine of planned lectures as a professor and a room full of students; my life changed to an empty room that I would clean every day and tell myself, “This is where gender will be discussed.” A small team of people who were willing to work with me on the cause and the will to drive in some definite changes has brought us where we are today.
At the turn of decade, I threw caution in the wind and re-started a life which I knew was taking me away from all that is cozy and familiar. I was plunging head first into the world that I slowly realized is much darker and a bedlam of social debris
Today when I labour through my mails, make appointments, write back, rewrite schedules, mobilise my team to events and issues, plan meetings and review projects, my zeal and energy remains the same that I had while I was pursuing my Doctorate in Political Science from JNU. And I feel that this is what keeps me going.
Many a times I was told, “Why gender? This is India. The change you are seeking will not come through. This is a way of life that people have learnt to live with, walk over, circumvent and ignore.” In activism, one always has to decide whether one wants to institutionalise it or wants to stage stand-alone voluntary action to demonstrate change. I was constantly asking existential questions alongside my fight to survive and make a difference. I knew there was something rotting at the back-alleys of social psyche. The stench was permeating the air and was soon becoming synonymous with what people think India was. Instead of cleaning the rot, people were telling me to perfume the air. But that doesn’t work. So,I rolled up my sleeves and got down to work.
I started working at a time in India when we were still discussing Sati abolishment (RoopKanwar, 1987). I was fumbling to pick up the magnanimous pile of gender issues and articulate one at a time. Wherever I went, I was not seen as a messiah who is the harbinger of liberal times. On the contrary, both men and women were threatened how the change I was speaking of, will feel like. Women wanted the men to change without even the strand of their hair to move in the process. I would ask myself, “Will the women change?”
Yes they did. I too, evolved with time. My team has seen me through everything. I always made it a habit that keeps my head above the waters, by reading voraciously. I read everything I could lay my hands on. My all-time favourite are biographies because perseverance, sang-froid in trying times and the sense of prevailing justice, gives me hope and buffets my heart like nothing else.
Centre for Social Research is not just a reputed organisation which has created feminists. It is a journey which has been successful inspite of the skepticism and critique it has received. Having said that, it is humbling to realise that we are still struggling with issues, I started my journey 30 years ago. A road it was and a road it will always be.
When I look at fledglings and budding gender crusaders, I always tell them, “If you lose your confidence, you will lose yourself. Never ever feel deadlocked and doubt the integrity of the gender-just spirit which you wish to infuse in the society. If you must, question it but do not doubt it. You must become a person a woman can trust. You must generate strength to not only carry yourself but also a little bit of others on you. You will gain strength if you keep your head stable with the ammunition of knowledge so keep reading. Read-learn-repeat. Finally, there will be a cost you will have to cough up if you seek social change. It will all come to you in a much better way that you will ever imagine. Take my word.”
About the Author
Director, Centre for Social Research
President, Women Power Connect
Coordinator, Joint Action Front for Women
Coordinator, South Asia Network against Trafficking India
A renowned social activist and a prolific academician, Dr.RanjanaKumari is the Director of Centre for Social Research as well as Chairperson of Women Power Connect. Dr.Kumari has dedicated her life to empowering women across the South Asia region, and isalso a prolific writer of many well-known publications. Dr.Kumari went to school in Varanasi, Uttar Pradesh.
Her paternal grandfather, a freedom fighter, PanditVishwanath Sharma, was the founder member of the famous Kashi Vidyapith of Varanasi, which was the first modern University organised by Indians in British India. After finishing her schooling, she moved to Delhi and did her MA, M.Phil and Ph.D in Political Science from Jawahar Lal Nehru University.
Her foray into social work was initiated by her concern for a dowry death that took place near her home in 1976. This led to her activism on world famous publication “Brides are not for Burning”. She has served as the Coordinator of the South Asia Network against Trafficking (SANAT) in Persons and is a member of the Central Advisory Board on “Pre Conception and Pre Natal Diagnostic Tests Act, 2001”, as well as the Central Advisory Committee for Prevention of Trafficking in Women and Children. Recently, Dr.Kumari has been a member of the NationalMission for Empowerment of Women by the Prime Minister of India. Some of her most passionate causes have been the participation of women in democracy and governance, the termination of dowry practices and dowry related violence, and the abolition of female foeticide.
In the past, she was a member of the Task Force on Industrial Relations for The International Labour Organisation (ILO) in Geneva and worked as senior professional at United Nations. Currently, she is a member of Global Safety Advisory Board of Facebook.